Now I'm curious what word(s) are between "the speed" and "lobsters die".

Maybe "that the", perhaps?

The original quote is "I do not control the speed at which lobsters die". I'm loathe to link to Reddit, but you can find more similar memes here (and in that entire subreddit).

See also: https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/i-do-not-control-the-speed-at-which-lobsters-die

Is there a speedoflobsters community on lemmy, maybe under a different name, I do not know about?

Reject modernity embrace the speed at which lobsters die.

Wild magic Sorcerer: I do not control the Lobsters (they just kind of showed up)

There's [email protected] and [email protected] but both are small and/or fairly inactive

Do they have contrasting moderation styles? If not, this seems like they could benefit from consolidation.